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Can parables help with stakeholder management?

Published 6 months ago • 2 min read

What's on my mind

Oh, those pesky stakeholders that just don't understand what it takes for us to do our work! How can we to make them understand our perspective?

Last week on LinkedIn, Rich Mironov posted some of his writing called The Hungry Man Parable.

As background, Rich wrote, "I talk with lots of executives from the go-to-market side of the house who think that building serious software is as easy – and easily estimatable – as building a fence."

To help them to better understand the process, he provided this parable:

A hungry man is on a street full of restaurants. Walking into the first restaurant, he is told of a 20-25 minute wait for a table. After 10 minutes, he’s even hungrier and loses patience… walking out and going to the restaurant next door. They also have a 20-30 minute wait for a table. After 10 minutes, he again loses patience and leaves… Eventually, the man dies of hunger.

Rich went on to explain that CEOs and GTM-side executive are not interested in the details - and that much of what we say sounds like excuses.

His advice: rather than push details onto those who have a totally different frame of reference, we should try to understand their perspective and talk to them in their own language.

Rich lays this out in another great post called Why Product Request SLAs Fail.

Sound familiar, researchers and designers?

This interaction inspired me to write my own parable, perhaps to encourage the rest of us in non-GTM roles? Here it is:

A hungry man is on a street full of restaurants. Walking into the first restaurant, he is told of a 20-25 minute wait for a table. After 10 minutes, he’s even hungrier and loses patience… but then he notices an infographic cleverly explaining the ratio of diners to cooks and how this impacts food prep time. He's also approached by a friendly manager who empathizes with his hunger, adds more context to the data and offers him a free drink for his patience. Eventually, the man enjoys his delicious dinner and agrees - it was well worth the wait.

Have you had success sharing details to get leadership to understand how you "make the sauce"?

Or has it worked better to simply take their perspective and speak in the language of their motivations?

Best of LinkedIn (this week)

Andrea Saez posted about a founder who recently came to her with this message: "I don’t want to hire product managers… they’re so far removed from speaking to customers, I’d rather have CSMs train to have product skills."

Moodi Mahmoudi posted about a Forbes article that makes the case for product discovery. One of his favorite quotes: "Today, your product is more than your core services. It's your central channel for sales, marketing and where your customer support happens."

Erika Flowers wrote about the phenomenon of LinkedIn collaborative AI articles: "It’s like self-checkout. It’s meant to get us to do the work of training an ML model on user data to sell, asking us to contribute content for the LinkedIn customer: advertisers and the organizations who buy user data."

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The Problem Space

by Janelle Ward

The Problem Space is where we go to learn about our users’ problems so we can design and develop meaningful and profitable solutions to solve these problems. It’s also where we go to learn about our companies, our employees/coworkers, and ourselves, so we can create the best organizational conditions for success.

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